Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast

“How to Find the Love of Your Life (Maybe Even Online) with Smart Dating Academy Founder, Bela Gandhi” on Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast #167

October 28, 2019

On this episode Rebecca Zung, Esq. and Susan Guthrie, Esq. talk with Bela Gandhi, the founder of the Smart Dating Academy about finding love, online dating and why she wants you to be "psychotically optimistic" about finding a lasting relationship!

Dating is so hard!  There are no good men/women out there!  I'm too scared to try again.

As divorce attorneys, we have heard it all when it comes to dating after divorce but the fact is that one marriage that ends (or two, or three) doesn't mean that you can't find lasting love in your life.  The magic is all in how you go about it and Bela Gandhi is the master at helping her clients to find that relationship that they have been looking for.  In fact, working with Bela has been likened to going to Harvard Business School but for dating and relationships! 

Did you know that we are just on the cusp of "peak dating season?"  This is THE TIME to get yourself ready to get back out there, knowing what it is that constitutes GHQ™ (Good Husband Qualities) or GWQ™(Good Wife Qualities) for you and how to put yourself out there online!  Whether you are divorced, never married or just looking to date, this is THE EPISODE FOR YOU!

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Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!"  Bela is a sought after media personality and is a regular contributor to The TODAY Show, Good Morning America and The Steve Harvey Show among many others.  Bela works with clients from all around the world to help them to find lasting relationships and get more love in their life.  Dating is hard, why go it alone when Bela can help?!  Visit her at now and tell her Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast sent you!




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